
You can read more first time advice here.Īs well as general mingling, a cabaret show played on stage, with a variety of acts to get punters in the mood.


In his opinion, what goes on there is a bit more complicated than what we think of as swinging. There’s plenty you need to learn if you’re heading to a sex club (Picture: Getty Images/500px)ĭr Chris Haywood, who’s a reader in critical masculinity studies at Newcastle University, has gone to sex clubs specifically to research them in person. Another couple, who were in their thirties, found it helped spice up their sex life. The people I did chat to were friendly one woman, who was 29, told me she regularly went to sex parties to experiment with other girls. I decided to let them crack on – no-one likes a third wheel, particularly not one with a dictaphone. Some of them were already kissing passionately in the small enclosed booths. It was a younger crowd, mostly couples in their 20s and 30s, mingled and chatted. Thankfully, prosecco at the venue was only about £6, so I knocked back a few glasses for Dutch courage (despite being warned ‘not to drink and kink’). I’m certainly no prude, having licked my fair share of peanut butter in my time, but I wasn’t sure how I was going to react at seeing so much sex in such an enclosed, magnified setting. The top-secret location of the ball was released the day before the event, and so I trekked with trepidation to the North East London nightclub with a sick feeling of nerves gnawing at my stomach.

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